Usually, they seek me out because they want something different from what they currently have. Acceleration in their career, a different way of leading (or being led), more purpose or balance, a new role. They have energy around that change, and they are ready to do something about it. And of course, sometimes change is thrust upon them.

Of course we explore options. As a coach it is my job to ask great questions and give space for reflection and clarity.

But still, sometimes there is still uncertainty about which direction to take.

And then I pull out a question that someone once asked me when I was at a crossroads:

“Which direction would make the most interesting story?”

I love this reframe. It worked for me. I imagined myself, 20 years from now, telling someone I love, all about my life (and its meaning). What story would I rather be telling?

And it gives my clients a slightly different lens – a bigger perspective – on the decisions they make and the impact on their own life story.