If you see it, you can be it

I've absolutely devoured the 'Wiser than me' podcast by Julia Louis Dreyfus (link in comments). Wondering why we don't hear from more older women, she interviews greats like Carol Burnett, Isabelle Allende, Fran Lebowitz, Diane von Furstenburg, Amy Tan and Jane Fonda. The interviews are funny and wise and thoroughly entertaining.

Learning from, and listening to, these gutsy, unconventional, smart, strong, flourishing women has me inspired and seeing the future Tess through a different lens. If they can live their lives with such courage and energy at 75 or 80 or 90, then so can I. If you see it - you can be it.

Towards the end of each interview, she asks a couple of questions.

What would you tell your 20 year old self?
What would you go back and say yes to?

How would you answer?